{"id":3560,"date":"2019-08-14T22:08:05","date_gmt":"2019-08-14T22:08:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/?p=3560"},"modified":"2019-08-14T22:08:05","modified_gmt":"2019-08-14T22:08:05","slug":"wedding-wednesday-no-9-picking-vendors-making-decisions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wedding-wednesday-no-9-picking-vendors-making-decisions\/","title":{"rendered":"Wedding Wednesday No. 9 \/\/ Picking Vendors + Making Decisions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am admittedly indecisive at times &#8211; I think it stems from also being a perfectionist, so I&#8217;m always agonizing over making the best decision! After I shared about meeting with our wedding save the date and invitation vendor last week, a few of y&#8217;all asked how I went about picking my vendors! I thought it would be helpful to share some of my process for deciding on things, especially because it isn&#8217;t something that comes naturally to me when there are a million different things to choose from!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>As of right now, I&#8217;ve booked our photographer, videographer, live band, stationary artist and provider, event rental company, &amp; cake baker (my Mama!), along with our ceremony and reception venues. <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><strong><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wedding-wednesday-no-7-wedding-dress-shopping\/\">My wedding dress<\/a><\/strong><\/span> has also been ordered, and bridesmaid&#8217;s dresses have been chosen! Still working on the florist and caterer!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-3563 size-full\" title=\"How to Pick Your Wedding Vendors\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=780%2C977&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"How to Pick Your Wedding Vendors\" width=\"780\" height=\"977\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?w=2438&amp;ssl=1 2438w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=240%2C300&amp;ssl=1 240w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=818%2C1024&amp;ssl=1 818w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=1227%2C1536&amp;ssl=1 1227w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=1635%2C2048&amp;ssl=1 1635w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?resize=400%2C500&amp;ssl=1 400w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?w=1560&amp;ssl=1 1560w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/collectivelycarolina.com\/staging\/4719\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/08\/Facetune_14-08-2019-14-37-36.jpg?w=2340&amp;ssl=1 2340w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 780px) 100vw, 780px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong><span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6YxW\">bride bag<\/a><\/span> \/\/ <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6YzH\">striped top<\/a><\/span> \/\/ <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6YzP\">necklace<\/a><\/span> \/\/ <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6Yx6\">earrings<\/a><\/span> \/\/<span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6YzX\"> jeans<\/a> <\/span>\/\/ <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"https:\/\/shopstyle.it\/l\/6Yya\">The Knot planner<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>After our wedding, I will happily share who our actual vendors are, but for now, here is everything I&#8217;ve learned so far:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>1. START WITH RESEARCH<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a friend who got married recently in your area? Chat with them about what did and didn&#8217;t work with each of their vendors. You might discover your photographer or cake baker just like that! I also did tons of research <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><strong><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"http:\/\/instagram.com\/collectivelycarolina\">on Instagram<\/a><\/strong><\/span>, which is how I ended up finding our stationary vendor. I originally found a photo of hers <span style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\"><strong><a style=\"color: #ffb9c7;\" href=\"http:\/\/pinterest.com\/collectivelycarolina\">on Pinterest<\/a><\/strong><\/span>, which led me to her Instagram profile. If you know you want something super specific like I did, do a hashtag search and see what you can find on social media!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>2. GET QUOTES<\/p>\n<p>When you come across a vendor that you&#8217;re interested in, send them a quick message or e-mail to ask about pricing. Also be sure to send them your event date in your initial communication to make sure they&#8217;re available! Unless it&#8217;s a caterer or event venue, they&#8217;ll most likely get back to you with some numbers without meeting in person. That will allow you to narrow down your potential vendor list from 5 photographers, to 2 photographers, and so on!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>3. MEET IN PERSON<\/p>\n<p>Once you&#8217;ve narrowed it down to 2 or 3 vendors in each category, set up meetings in person! Ultimately, you&#8217;ll get the best vibe from a company or individual when you&#8217;re talking face to face. Check for things like professionalism, ease of communication, and overall being on the same page as you. Different vendors have different styles so make sure they&#8217;re lining up with your vision of a traditional wedding, modern wedding, etc. Bring photos (especially to your florist, cake baker, &amp; photographer) of things that you really like and don&#8217;t like!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>At the end of the day, go with your heart! Make it clear to your vendors what your vision is, and they&#8217;ll tell you whether or not they can make it happen. If something or someone feels like a good fit, they probably are! Do you have any good wedding vendor tips?! 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